2020-02-26 to 28 Pictures: Charleston, South Carolina

One of the few upsides of having to cancel our Spring Break trip last March at the onset of the pandemic is that we are "stuck" with a rather large voucher from one of those discount airlines. Last autumn, Tricia and I spent a weekend in Savannah, Georgia and had a...

A John 3:16 Craft for Kids

John 3:16 is one of the most well known and reassuring verses in the Bible. For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.John 3:16 (NIV) The following is a little craft I threw...

2020-03-01 Pictures: Lyndsey’s College Signing Day

This afternoon Lyndsey made it official, signing her letter of intent to play college basketball for the Hiram College Terriers starting next year. While she made the decision and committed to Hiram before Christmas, she has been looking forward to this day since her...

2020-02-13 Pictures: Lyndsey’s 18th Birthday

I am little behind on posting photos. These are some of my favorites from a couple of weekends ago when we got a chance to celebrate Lyndsey's 18th birthday. It's hard to believe that my little girl is officially an adult. It was nice to have the family all back...


Introduction I love working with kids, and I love teaching them hard concepts in ways they can understand. To that end, for years I have been working on a dictionary of theological terms for kids and teens. In sharing those definitions, there seemed no better place to...

If You Want It Done Right

In all likelihood, you know how the phrase ends: If you want it done right, DO IT YOURSELF! This is a bit of a mantra for me, and frankly, something that I struggle with daily both in leadership and in my Christian walk.  In theory, this is easy to accept. ...

What Does God Hate?

This is the little and humble post that started it all. I happened to be reading through my Bible, and this passage impacted me so much that I posted a little blurb about it on Facebook. That was July 28, 2008, and I've been writing and sharing ever since. (Maybe...

What Are the Non-Negotiables When It Comes to Ministry?

non-negotiables1As volunteers and/or bi-vocational children’s ministers who are passionate about reaching kids for God, there is one constant battle that we all face.  It is something that we all battle with every day.  That thing is TIME.  More specifically, it finding time to accomplish all of the things we have to accomplish and those things we want to accomplish.  I think that is because it is a universal problem.  God only gives us a certain number of hours in each week, and between our commitment to our ministries and our other responsibilities outside the church, there never seems to be enough time.  This issue is certainly not unique to volunteers and bi-vocational ministers, but it is certainly prevalent and perhaps compounded by other fulltime jobs and responsibilities.

So, what are we to do about it?  Well, today marks the beginning of a new series titled “The Non-Negotiables.”  This is not a series general about time management.  I am sure we will see plenty of that here on this site in the days and weeks to come, but that is not the purpose of this series.  If you’re looking for good resources on time management (especially from a children’s ministry perspective, I suggest you check out Brother Jim Wideman’s book Beat the Clock.  It is chocked full of great advice and ideas from a trusted leader in the field of children’s ministry.  A review and give away of the book will be coming up soon here on Kidmin1124 as soon as I can find the time to write it (and, yes I appreciate the irony of that comment).

This series will address one critical component of time management though, and that is prioritizing.  In order to own your time, you must learn to prioritize the tasks that you need to get done.  In that process, you must determine what is important and what is not so important, what needs to get done first, and what might not need to get done at all.  All too often when we do not prioritize, we end up ignoring the things which should be most important in our lives.  By not managing our time, we end up not doing those things which we simply can not afford to eliminate from our lives.  We will call those things the “Non-Negotiables.”  For those of you already planning out your comment in your head, please see the grammar disclaimer at the bottom of this article. 🙂

The Non-Negotiables are those things in our lives that we can not afford to sacrifice.  What of the great benefits of managing our time wisely is ensuring that we do have enough time for the Non-Negotiables.  You’ll note that I said “have enough time” and not “leave enough time.”  The Non-Negotiables are so important that we should not merely leave time for them.  They should be at the top of the list of things we plan time for.

In this series, we will have a look at several Non-Negotiables in our lives that we must schedule time for and vigorously defend that time once scheduled.  We will ignore some obvious physical non-negotiables like food and sleep and focus on those things that will help us grow and refuel both mentally and spiritually.  We will examine non-negotiables which are (or should be) universal for all Christians as well as non-negotiables which may vary by individual.

I am looking forward to discussing my own non-negotiables and hopefully hearing about some yours.I hope you’ll check back soon for the first installment in the series.  As always, my wish is that this series will much more of a discussion, and that we will have an opportunity to interact through comments.    Please feel free to leave a comment below describing your non-negotiables.

Grammar disclaimer:  For all the grammar nuts out there who would like to point it out (and, yes, I would be one of them if it weren’t my article), I know that the word nonnegotiable is technically an adjective.  I’ve chosen to use it as a noun for purposes of the article because we are going to cover a series of things which are nonnegotiable.  Furthermore, Non-Negotiable is not generally hyphenated.  I have taken that liberty for this series to emphasize that the items we discuss are not open for negotiation.  Now that we have grammar issues all neatly tucked away, I hope you enjoy this series.