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#1 – Prepare! Prepare! Prepare (Tips for Large Group Teaching)

Welcome to a continuing series of tips on working with large groups of children.  I hope that you will find these tips useful and be able to implement them in your dealings with large groups of kids.  If you do, please leave a comment and let us know.  For a complete list of posts in this series, please see the index page.  So, without further introduction, here is today’s installment.

The Bible says that those who teach will be held to a higher standard, that not all should presume to teach and that those who do teach will be judged more strictly (James 3:1).  It also says that anyone who leads a little one astray would be better off to have a millstone tied to his neck and be thrown into the sea (Luke 17:2).  Given those warnings, it would be foolish not to prepare thoroughly for your time teaching God’s kids!

Plan your lessons out months in advance.  Even if you don’t put the final touches on your preparation until the week or two before, planning early will give you time to find that obscure prop or rewrite a section of a lesson when God gives you a better idea.  If you have planned things out a couple of months in advance (at least preliminarily) and know what’s coming up, it gives you time to meditate on and contemplate the lesson in order to make it the best that it can be.

When it comes to final preparations and the week before you present the lesson, have a definitive plan as opposed to just a rough idea of what you want to accomplish.  Know what you want to do and when you want to do it.  Think about the props and/or costumes that you will use, and make sure you have everything.  Keep a check list of everything so you don’t leave something out at the last second.  Know how long things are going to take, and plan out with specificity the order and flow of the lesson to effectuate smooth transitions.  Work each week to memorize the lesson.  If you know the words you need to say, it gives you the ability to adapt on the fly without worrying that you may miss something.  Put together a Sunday morning (or Saturday night) check list to make sure there isn’t anything that you are forgetting.  I have never left church on Sunday thinking I wish I hadn’t prepared as much.  I have left thinking I wish I had put in more time to get ready!  Finally, we will discuss this more in depth in another post, but part of your preparation must include prayer.

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  1. Lin Pearson

    I couldn’t agree more, Wayne. Prep is vital.
    I also find that making lists is helpful for me, too. That way, as soon as I think of something it is recorded. getting older I find I need that more.

    I remember turning up at a service with the wrong bag of visuals. identical bags for a youth event and a childrens event – not a good idea! Fortunately my colleague is a tremendously good story-teller! So the loss of the lesson visuals was not an enormous handicap.

    But from that day onward we kept a list of everything that was needed, and before we loaded the car we eye-balled each individual item.
    Oh yes, and we colour coded the bags!!

  2. Wayne Stocks

    I love lists. My wife makes fun of me for keeping lists of my lists. 🙂 Thanks for sharing your story. I haven’t done exactly that, but I have been left lacking a key part of my presentation before when I was sure I had it. When I write up my lesson each week, I have a section for everything I need to bring. The last thing I do each week is make sure everything is in my box so nothing will be missed.

    Thank you for commenting on the post. I love to receive comments as it makes this blog much more interactive.