The Children’s Ministry Blog Patrol (August 2010)

Childrens Ministry Blog Patrol

Welcome back to The Children’s Ministry Blog Patrol. Every month we gather links from around the blogging world related to Children’s Ministry and issues important to those who work in Children’s Ministry and organize into one easy to use document. A friend once described it as “The Table of Contents of the Children’s Ministry Blogs.” I like that.

As always, there were a lot of great articles published this month in the world of Children’s Ministry. I hope you will take a few moments to check them out.

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As has become my custom, I have identified what I view as the best of the best, or most important, articles of the past month with this little graphic next to the title.

I used to warn you with a graphic when I was linking to posts from Dad in the Middle. Since I am now also now writing for and, that doesn’t seem as pertinent, and I have stopped using it. I guess you’ll have to fend for yourself. 

The following is a quick guide to the various sections of this month’s Children’s Ministry Blog Patrol (If you have any category ideas, please let me know):

With that introduction, let’s have a look at some articles you might have missed this past month:

Featured Article of the Month

The idea of this section is to pick the one article (or series) each month which had the greatest impact on me and I thought would be the most useful to the readers of The Children’s Ministry Blog Patrol. That said, I know myself, and there is a good chance that I may include more than one article each month where I found it impossible to pick just one. I do promise to keep it to three or fewer though! (Note: These articles are also included in their proper categories below).

Why the Bible is a Tough Book for Americans
  • Don Miller explores the “Why” and the “What” of our lives and how it impacts our ability to accept the Bible.

On Teaching & Working With Kids

One of the critical roles in Children’s Ministry is that of teacher and shepherd of kids. These articles offer tips and advice on teaching and doing presentation for kids as well as general information on working with children.

What Is So Enticing About Sin?
  • I linked to one of the most popular series ever on Dad in the Middle in this article.

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Blog Series – The A-Z of Children’s Ministry

David Wakerley challenged himself to post the complete A to Z of children’s ministry this month, and we all get to endeavor from this challenge.

Blog Series – These Kids Are Bored

Jamie Doyle explores some of the reasons kids might be bored in your church service.

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Why I Don’t Want to Be Too Good at Kidmin
  • I wrote this article for Ministry-to-Children about how I never want to let my preparation and plan stand in the way of God’s will when it comes to working with kids.
Kids Evangelizing Kids (and How We Can Stay Out of the Way)
  • I wrote this article for based on a conversation I had with Henry Zonio regarding how we may inadvertently impose our trepidation for sharing the gospel on kids.
Let’s Talk Tweens!
  • Wendy Douglas talks about the fun and challenge of working with Tweens.
What’s Really Important?
  • Tammy Jones reminds us what is really important when it comes to children’s ministry. Here’s a hint – it is not big rooms and fancy props.
The Most Important Thing
  • Greg Baird from Kidmin360 shares the most important things you can do for a kid.
Managing Small Groups in Kids’ Ministry
  • Lifeway offers practical advice on using small groups with kids.
My Top 5 Non-Negotiables
  • Roger Fields shares his top five non-negotiable items when it comes to working with kids.

Children’s Ministry Issues

This category is a bit of a catch all for everything that doesn’t fit under another category. These articles deal with all kinds of different issues relevant to Children’s Ministry and those who work in that ministry.

Blog Series – New Position Landmines

Todd McKeever has a new job, and in this series he explores some of the potential land mines when you walk into a new position.

Blog Series – People I’ve Met Online

Jonathan Cliff started a series about some great people he’s met online.

Blog Series – The Social Church Database

Kenny Conley explores social church database.

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Blog Series – Interview with Amy Fenton Lee

Check out this two part interview that Another Piece of the Puzzle did with Inclusive Church Blog founder Amy Fenton Lee

Five Reasons to Quit Children’s Ministry
  • Greg Baird shares five signs that children’s ministry might not be for you.

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Dear Pastor: We Really Need To Talk!
  • Tony Kummer writes on open letter to senior pastors from children’s pastors on the importance of supervision.
  • Amy Fenton Lee asks (and answers), “How do ADD/ADHD kids fit into the special needs community and children’s ministry? How can we equip our volunteers?”

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5 Articles to Encourage Your Children’s Ministry
  • Tony Kummer digs through the archives of to share five of the sites most encouraging articles.
Get your ideas organized
  • Matthew Guevara writes about mind mapping.
Complainers Get More Attention
  • Anna Light wonders why it is that people who complain get the most attention. I wonder if this is true in your children’s ministry and/or in your family.
For the Love of Children
  • Check out these two poems from Ulrich Schaffer from the book titled “For the Love of Children.”

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Challenged by Frozen Lasagna
  • God works in mysterious ways as demonstrated by this great story from Barbara Graves.
10 Characteristics of Growing Churches
  • Perry Noble shares some common characteristics of growing churches. Many of these are applicable to children’s ministry as well.

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Top Ten Most Stressful Life Events
  • The Orange parents blog lists the top ten most stressful events a person can encounter in their lives. Let us remember that kids are not immune to stress either.
What are you doing with your spare time?
  • Matthew Guevara challenges us over where we are investing our free time.
The Iceberg
  • How an iceberg relates to your talents and character and what you can to keep it from sinking your ship.
Safety in Children’s Ministry
  • Amy Fenton Lee writes about the importance of safety in children’s ministry – especially when it pertains to special needs kids.
Missions Monday
  • Wendy Douglas introduced a new feature on her blog to highlight some missions minded ministries.
10 Common Mistakes Children’s Pastors Make
  • Tamera Kraft shares a practical list of ten things Children’s Pastors do that they probably shouldn’t.
The Good, Bad, and Ugly of Doing Ministry from Home
  • Jenny Funderburke shares her personal journey and struggles with doing ministry from home.
Be Willing to Delete
  • Christine Yount Jones reminds us all that in writing, and in ministry, we have to be willing to delete to come up with a good final product.
Will Your Church Care for the Special Needs Child?
  • Amy Brown, from writes about the importance of church investing in kids with special needs.
Preschooler Checklist for Spiritual Growth
  • Do you ever wonder what you should be teaching your preschooler about God? This handy checklist will provide you with some guidance.


Anyone who knows me or follows this blog probably knows that I feel storytelling is an essential element in conveying the meaning and veracity of the Bible to kids. I’m hoping to find enough posts to have a separate section for posts related to storytelling. So, let’s see how it goes.

Blog Series – Review of Formational Children’s Ministry by Ivy Beckwith

In this four part series, I did an in depth synopsis and review of the latest book from Ivy Beckwith called “Formational Children’s Ministry.”


How to discipline in Children’s Ministry is an oft discussed question, and this section is dedicated to all things related to discipline.

Blog Series – How To Deal With Difficult Kids

J.C. Thompson continued his series this month on how to deal with difficult kids.

Trusting God with our Children
  • CM Buzz shares their discipline system.

Leaders and Leadership

Running a ministry takes leadership at all kinds of different levels. This section is for articles about and for leaders.

Dark Week Recap
  • I turned off the electronics for another week this summer. This article recaps my experience.
Blog Series – The Non-Negotiables

I continued my series this month on discussing those things we can’t afford to give up in order to make more time.

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Blog Series – What I Learned About Resting

Jim Wideman shares what he learned from his vacation about the importance of rest.

Blog Series – Build A Better Meeting

Amy Dolan continues her sometimes sporadic but always helpful and insightful Monday Morning series on making a better meeting.

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Four Paths
  • Carey Nieuwhof examines the four potential paths of a leader.
Steps to Clearer Communication
  • Deb Springer examines the importance of clear communication and paying attention to the words that you choose to use.
Am I Teachable?
  • Wendy Douglas explores the importance of making sure that you are always learning.
Everyone Needs to Unplug Every Now and Then
  • I wrote about my plans for Go Dark week this past August in this post and explained why it’s important to unplug every now and then.
Curve Balls Equal Opportunity
  • Gina McClain proves, once again, that your response to challenges is dictated in large part by your attitude towards unexpected “problems.”
How Could That Possibly Help?
  • Funny Man Dan writes about an interesting social phenomenon.
A Few Thoughts That I’ve Been Thinking Lately…
  • I like quotes. I find them fascinating. In this article, Perry Noble shares some quotes and his thoughts on them.
Why You Should Understand Your Weaknesses
  • Michael Hyatt explains why it is important to know your weaknesses in addition to your strengths.
Building Confidence in Volunteers
  • In Lisa Habisreutinger first article for, she shares how she worked intentionally to build up a team of volunteers.
Snack Pack Leadership
  • Gina McClain shares the value in, and a practical method of, pouring into your volunteers.
As a youth minister, how do you develop stronger theology for yourself as a leader?
  • Chad Swanzy shares some thoughts on how to make sure you are constantly growing stronger in your own theology.


Most Children’s Ministries are made up principally, or entirely, of volunteers. I am amongst that number. This section includes articles related to volunteers both for volunteers and about volunteers.

Blog Series – Recruiting Volunteers

In this two part series, Karen Kolger looks at ways to recruit volunteers.

Blog Series – Different Ways to Recruit

Coach Shef examines several different methods of recruiting people on the Orange Leaders blog.

A Complete (FREE) Volunteer Recruitment Package
  • Courtesy of Andy Johnson and Free CM Stuff, this is a complete recruiting package for kidmin volunteers.
Create a Variety of Special Needs Ministry Volunteer Opportunities
  • Amy Fenton Lee shares ways a church can build congregational support for special needs ministry by offering various positions.
Need More Volunteers?
  • Dale Hudson on the proper approach to finding volunteers.
Finalizing Volunteers’ Commitment
  • Jenny Funderburke concludes her series on volunteers with this important post on how to finalize commitments.
Make a Difference
  • Andy Johnson posted this free complete volunteer recruitment package that you can use for your church.
6 Steps to Effective Recruiting
  • This article from Impulsive Joy offers 6 tips to better recruit volunteers.
Still Recruiting? Sell What’s Important
  • Coach Shef writes about the importance of being realistic in the expectations for your volunteer recruiting.

Family Ministry / Orange

Family Ministry is a growing trend in the field of Children’s Ministry wherein worship services and teaching are not segregated by age. Instead, the whole family is the core. This section includes articles specifically related to Family Ministry.

Nothing New Under the Sun and Children’s Ministry
  • This article looks at an interesting quote from Charles Spurgeon which mirrors some of the current issues in children’s ministry.
Blog Series – Connecting Church and Home

Tony Kummer covered the inaugural Connecting Church and Home Conference for his blog. Here are his thoughts.

It Takes a Village
  • Gina McClain comments on an Article from Brian Haynes in the latest issue of Children’s Ministry Magazine on family ministry.
How We Create Moments for Families
  • Gina McClain shares the specifics of a great family event her church put on. There is much to be learned from this article.
Surround Your Children with Faith Witnesses!
  • Greg Priebbenow explores Hebrews 11 and why it is important to surround your kids with other Christian influences.
Parents are a Necessary Part
  • This article explores the importance of getting parents involved in Christian education.
Intergenerational Ministry and the Family
  • Kara Jenkins, of, writes about the practical imperatives of intergenerational ministry.

Kids & The Bible

Jesus should be at the center of any Children’s Ministry. That means teaching kids about Jesus, about the Bible and about theology. This section is for articles that discuss and assist with teaching kids about the Bible, theology and theological concepts.

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Why the Bible is a Tough Book for Americans
  • Don Miller explores the “Why” and the “What” of our lives and how it impacts our ability to accept the Bible.

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Let’s just ignore the text and go straight to looking for a subtext…
  • Abraham Piper shares this cartoon on “over interpreting” the text.
Poll Results: What Bible translation do you use in youth group?
  • Check out these interesting results regarding the most popular Bible translations used in youth groups.
Involving children with the Bible
  • The Children’s Ministry Blog shares 10 great ideas for getting kids excited about the Bible.
Trusting God with our Children
  • Jared Kennedy shares some resources which are helpful in wrestling with trusting God with our kids including issues related to suffering kids and the age of accountability.
Will I See My Pet in Heaven?
  • The Life Together blog shares some links to answer the question “Will I see my pet in heaven?” In the interest of full disclosure, I should note that I have not had time to review the resources he linked to.

Kids & Christ

In all about Christ! This section is for articles about bringing kids to Christ, bringing kids back to Christ, salvation and children, and anything along those lines. I’ll warn you that I love stories about kids being saved. So, don’t be surprised if you see quite a few of those hear too.

Who is Jesus? Ask the Puppets!
  • Karl Bastian shared this video he made with puppets in his backyard for a series on what the gospel is and is not.
Celebrating Changed Lives
  • If you’ve read the Children’s Ministry Blog Patrol for long, you know I have a great fondness for stories of God working through kids to expand his Kingdom. This is another one of those stories.
How one kid thinks of Jesus
  • Lin Pearson links to one child’s storybook for Jesus.

Kids & Culture

Kid are multi-million dollar target market. Is it any wonder that kids these days have their own culture? This section looks various cultural trends and issues with kids and that affect kids.

If 40 is the New 30 Then is 20 the New Junior High?
  • Donald Miller offers some much needed advice to those in their 20’s about growing up.
How does the Internet impact relationships?
  • Matthew Guevara explores how the internet impacts relationships.

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Video Games, Idols and Your Child’s Heart
  • Advice from C.J. Mahaney on dealing with idols in kids’ lives.
Internet Safety For the Family
  • Dad’s 4 Life shares some internet safety tips.
44% of Kids Say They Have No Role Models
  • GJ Farmer shares the results of an alarming study on the lack of role models in kids’ lives today.
the internet – infographic
  • Check out these interesting statistics about the internet.

VBS / Camp

VBS is over for the summer, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t still plenty of articles out there. Here are some of them.

Summer Camp: What works.
  • Sam Luce writes about what works at summer camps.
Summer Camp: What works and doesn’t work
  • Sam Luce shares his personal thoughts on what works and what doesn’t when it comes to Summer Camps.
Printable VBS Evaluation Forms
  • I was asked to develop a generic VBS evaluation questionnaire for Here it is.
10 Reasons To Still Do Vacation Bible School
  • Fresh off Vacation Bible School at my church, I wrote this article on 10 reasons to still do VBS in light of a trend in kidmin towards cancelling such events.


One of the fun things about working in Children’s Ministry is playing games with kids. As Games Leader in AWANA each week, this is near and dear to my heart. In this section, I have accumulated articles about and links to various games.

Another Post on Minute to Win It for Children’s Ministry
  • I’m putting together a Minute to Win It game night for early next year. So, I pulled together a bunch of the resources I’ve found online.
Bible Games for Kids – Sign or No Sign
  • Christianity Cove shares a fun game for kids specifically designed for a lesson on Gideon.
3 Active Games for Children’s Church
  • Mimi Bullock from shares these three great games for church. These will work especially well for your more active kids – you know the ones I’m talking about!
Group game for teaching about prayer
  • Lin Pearson shares a great game for helping kids to learn about the spiritual discipline of prayer.
Bible Jeopardy Game for Family Time
  • Pastor Steve links to a jeopardy type game for teaching your kids about the Bible.


There are lots of great books out there about Children’s Ministry and lots of great books for kids. In this section, we accumulated reviews and recommendations to such books.

What Matters Now in Children’s Ministry – Wonder by Randy Isola
  • I slowed down this past month, but I’m still working through the chapters in the e-book “What Matters Now in Children’s Ministry.” This month I looked at the chapter on Wonder by Randy Isola.

Internet Sites and Resources

The goal of the Children’s Ministry Blog Patrol is to bring together useful resources for those involved in Children’s Ministry. Many bloggers out there write about their favorite web sites. This section is for those types of articles.

Spotlight on our Sponsors – Christianity Cove
  • On Dad in the Middle, we’ve started to shine the spotlight on some of our sponsors, this article highlights some of the features of Christianity Cove.
What is
  • Commander Bill shares just what his Awana site is all about.
Pay Jr. = 21st Century Allowance
  • Sam Luce reviews a resource that brings the concept of allowance into the 21st century.
Open Content Policy for Website Content
  • Tony Kummer shares the policies of on the use of materials published on their site.

Coloring Pages

Recently some sites (specifically have been offering free Bible based coloring pages for use at home or in your ministry. I thought they merited their own section, so here it is!

Gospel Coloring Pages: Who is my King?
  • Check out this new series of coloring pages from
Gospel Coloring Pages: Why Do I Need a King?
  •’s gospel coloring page series continued with this “Why Do I Need a King?” page.
Creation Coloring Pages “Very Good”
  • is quickly becoming known as the premiere place on the internet to getting coloring pages for your kids or your children’s ministry. Check out this page on creation.
Armor of God Coloring Pages
  • More coloring page from This article includes several related to the Armor of God.

Other Kidmin Resources (Music, Conferences, Etc.)

One thing I have learned since getting involved in Children’s Ministry is that those who work in Children’s Ministry are generous to a fault. This section is full of useful resources for those working with kids.

Shout Out Loud
  • This is fun video to get the kids in your ministry up and moving.
GOD’S KIDS WORSHIP DVDs (A Dad in the Middle Review)
  • God’s Kids Worship is a great resource for worship music for your children’s ministry. Find out more about them in this article.

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Blog Series – CD Burn Notice

Yancy Richmond offers solid advice about music and copyrights.

Free stuff every kids pastor need to know about.
  • Sam Luce shares links to various free things that all children’s pastors should take advantage of. Thanks for Sam for listing these out.
Meet the Rizers
  • Sam Luce shares information about a great group doing kids worship music.
Free Resource Friday: CM Talk
  • Jared Massey links to one of my favorite podcasts – CM Talk and shares his 6 degrees of separation from both Dick Gruber and Jason Rhode.

Other General Resources (Bible Study, Theology, Etc.)

As those in children’s ministry, one of the things we should be committed to is growing in our own faith. I come across all kinds of resources to help with that, I will share them here.

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Love Genealogy? Then You’ll Love This Bible Website!
  • John Saddington shares a link to a fascinating site based on the genealogies of the Bible. Launches, Access Scripture Everywhere
  • Here is another site from John Saddington. This one if for Bible study and comes from the people who put out the Logos Bible Study software. There are elements that you can purchase, but there is plenty of free stuff you can use as well.

Check It Out – A New Tool for Answering Kids
  • Here is an article I wrote for about an apologetic site which answers a multitude of questions about Jesus.
Virtual Models of the Temple Mount in the Time of Jesus
  • Justin Taylor shares this video recreation of what the temple looked like in the days of Jesus.
Writer’s Block. What to do When the Well Runs Dry.
  • Don Miller offers his advice on what to do when your creative writing juices dry up.
13 Questions to Diagnose Your Idolatries
  • The Desiring God blogs share a short and insightful list of questions for you to diagnose the idols in your own life.

Curriculum and Object Lessons

Curriculum was part of the Resources section before I started to see more and more object lessons as blog posts. I don’t put them all here do to time constraints, but I will link to some of my favorite every month. If you’re looking for more, trying searching the blogs that show up under this section. Many of them frequently post object lessons.

Blog Series – Free Bible Lessons

Sam Luce continues to post free Bible lessons on the books of the Old Testament.

Special Needs Focused Curriculum
  • Amy Fenton Lee answers the question about how to find curriculum for special needs children for your church.
How NOT to Choose Curriculum
  • Karl Bastian shares five ways you SHOULD NOT choose curriculum for your children’s ministry.
Salvation Object Lesson
  • Linnea Sandvall, of shares an object lesson on salvation using only an egg.

Parenting and Marriage Issues

The Children’s Ministry Blog Patrol would not be complete if we did not pay attention to family issues that affect the kids we minister to. This section includes various articles and parenting and marriage.

The Moment of Terror
  • This article conveys my personal experience with the worst feeling a parent could ever experience.

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Blog Series – 8 ways to empower your child to have the best school year ever !

Jim Wideman shares how you can bless your kids in this new school year.

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Hide and go seek and letting go.
  • Sam Luce shares his theories on the importance of training our kids and letting them go.

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I’d Rather be Hated than Loved with Conditions
  • Donald Miller writes about the problems of conditional love.

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Let’s get Awkward!
  • Matt Mckee explores the awkwardness of praying with your spouse.
5 C’s for Parenting
  • Forming Faith reposts a blog article on the five C’s of biblical parenting. The author may be unknown, but the article is definitely worth reading.
Worshipping With Children: Some Thoughts for Parents
  • Greg Priebbenow shares his thought on how to make Sunday a more enjoyable experience.
Less Time…More Influence
  • Carey Nieuwhof writes about the amount of time you have with your kids and your influence on them.

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Parenting Tip: Compliance vs. Obedience
  • One of the things I love about Staci Inskeep and her Cap City Kidz blog is the practical advice she offers to parents in her ministry. In this article, she tackles the difference between compliance and obedience.
Parenting Tip: Understanding Obedience
  • In this article, Staci Inskeep helps parents to understand what Obedience is.
Parenting Tip: Strong-Willed Kids
  • Staci Inskeep offers advice to parents on what to do with strong-willed kids.
18 Lessons From 18 Years of Marriage
  • Past Mark Driscoll, and his wife, share 18 things they have learned over the course of their marriage.
Developing a Family Plan for your child’s spiritual growth
  • This post will help parents sit down and come up with a spiritual plan for their kids.

Devotions for Kids & Families

There are great sites out there with devotions for families and kids. These are great resources which we can point families too.

Children’s Bible Studies – Good Friend Qualities
  • This lesson from Christianity Cove, uses the story of Samson to teach about being a good friend.

Just For Fun

This section includes posts from various Children’s Ministry blogs from the last month that were lighthearted, useful or just made me chuckle.

Arguing with a stereotypical woman
  • Abraham Pipers shares this fun cartoon about the art of arguing with women.
5 people you meet in any small group.
  • Stuff Christians Like explores 5 types of people you will meet in small groups. I wonder what the kidmin equivalents of these are.
  • Stuff Christians Like suggests come Twitter etiquette.
95 Theses Rap
  • What do Martin Luther and rap music have in common?
A helicopter you can fly with your iPhone
  • J.C. Thompson shares what has to be one of the coolest toys I’ve seen in a while! Articles

This section includes a listing of my posts on Dad in the Middle alerting readers to new articles which I have published on

The Centrality of Christ in Children’s Ministry
  • In this article, I examined the importance of, and provided some guidelines for gauging, the centrality of Christ in your kidmin lesson.

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  1. This is a phenomenal summary! Thanks for putting it together.

  2. Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him, and he shall direct thy paths.