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ipadLast week I wrote about the importance of reading the Bible.  This week, I want to make another recommendation to you.  If you have an iPad, it should become your primary means for reading the Bible.

When I first got an iPad about 18 months ago (I wasn’t an early adopter), it felt like an oversized iPhone.  I wasn’t entirely sure what I would do with it, but I love techy things so I was excited to try it out.  One thing I was certain I wouldn’t do with it was use it as an e-reader.  I spend a lot of time each day staring at a computer screen in my day job, and I couldn’t imagine reading books that way.  Give me an old fashioned book with a highlighter, and I was happy.

As it turned out, I couldn’t have been more naïve.   Reading is in fact one the primary uses for my iPad these days.  I review pdfs on it.  I read my blog feeds on it.  I love the Kindle app and have several books store there that I use in preparation for children’s ministry lesson.  And, perhaps more than anything else, I love the ability to read my Bible on the iPad.  I use Olive Tree’s app.  To this day it, along with the ESV Study Bible, is still the most expensive app I’ve purchased, and it was worth every penny and more.  The ability to search the Bible, highlight as you read, tag things, keep bookmarks and so much more has made the iPad an invaluable tool both for Bible reading and study.  Commentaries are available for the text you are reading at the touch of a button.  Charts and graphs come alive as you see them side by side with the text.  I am able to keep my personal notes as I read right alongside any sermon notes I might take as I sit in church.  I haven’t counted, but I have upwards of 15-20 different highlighting colors (all customizable) to highlight relevant passages.  So, for example, all the different names of God are highlighted in purple.  Passages about children and families are in blue.  References to the Holy Spirit are in Orange, and so on and so on.  Each time I  read through the Bible, I add more an more highlights as God leads me to knew topics to study whether than be the love of God, fear of God, holiness or whatever else.  And, all of your highlights transfer between translations of the Bible.  My “go to” translation is the ESV, but I also have an NASB and HCSB in my Olive Tree library.

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Do It AllIn all likelihood, you know how that phrase ends.

If you want it done right, DO IT YOURSELF!

This is a bit of a mantra for me, and frankly, something that I struggle with daily both in leadership and in my Christian walk.  If theory, this is easy to accept.  As a Christian, we have to empty ourselves to be filled with the holy spirit.  We have to turn our hopes and desires and aspirations over to God to follow after His will.  We need to rely on Him in the big stuff and in the small stuff.  I get it!  I really do…except…that it isn’t easy.  Instead, I fall all to frequently to the lies I tell myself.  I’ve gotten myself into this mess…I need to get myself out.  If I work hard enough, I can do anything.  I don’t want to “burden” God so I’ll just take care of this myself.  That is my daily walk and my daily stuggle.  God has been gracious enough to show it to me, and if I’m being honest, my biggest struggle is still in not trying to fix that problem myself.

But, that’s not what I want to talk about.  I want to chat for a second about children’s ministry.  Are you a do it yourself kind of person?  Does that show in your ministry?  Do you have kids involved in all phases of your weekend service.

  • Are they involved in large group?
  • Do you let them lead worship?
  • Do you trust them to keep a small group moving along, or is it all leader driven?
  • Are they, wait for it, in the tech booth where all that expensive equipment hangs out?
  • Do they lead games?
  • Do older kids disciple younger kids or are they all shuffled off to their age specific groups never to mix again?

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The Christian Parenting Handbook imageBooks about parenting are a dime a dozen.  Christian books about parenting may only cost you a couple of cents a dozen.  There are tons and tons and tons of them out there.  Some are good and some will make you long to watch water drip from a faucet.  Some will change the way you think about parenting, and some will promise amazing results in only seven days with their time tested program.

What is lacking in the Christian Parenting genre is a book that not only addresses the why of parenting based on Christian principles but the how.  Missing that is….until now.  With the launch today of Dr. Scott Turansky and Joanne Miller’s new book The Christian Parenting Handbook, a void is filled in helping parents to understand HOW to apply biblical principals to raising their kids.

This book is exactly what the title implies.  It is a handbook for parents on how to raise their kids in a way that addresses the heart issues your child faces throughout their young and adolescent years.  From the very first chapter which may catch you off guard – “Consistency Is Overrated” to the 50th chapter (“The Value of Grandparents”), this book will help you move from a behavioral control model of parenting to a model that addresses the core issues of the heart.

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On The Importance of Food

Wayne —  April 26, 2013 — 2 Comments

bibleI love the Bible!  I really do.  I even love trying to figure out the importance of the less “exciting” parts of the Bible.  There was a time a few years back when I was reading through the entire Bible three or four times a year.  I like to take notes as I read the Bible and keep lists.  Truly, it is one of the more enjoyable things I do.  But, for some reasons I go through these stretches in my life where I just don’t pick it up. 

I mentioned the time a few years back when I was reading 10-20 chapters a day.  That was followed by a period of a couple year where I had no real reading plan.  I still read the Bible.  I read it to prepare for lessons, and I would decide to read a book here or there or a couple of chapters from a book if I had come across something interesting, but I wasn’t reading it consistently.  A couple of years ago, I decided that needed to change.  I picked a chronological reading plan (one way I’ve still not read through the Bible) and set out on January 1 to read through the entire Bible in chronological order in one year.  That lasted until about January 20th.  I missed a week, and sure enough I was back to my old “on and off” style of reading.

Fast forward to December 2011.  I decided on December 11th (I remember because it was exactly two weeks before Christmas) that I was going to read the four gospels in the weeks leading up to Christmas.  As always happens when I get back into my Bible, I quickly remembered how much I love reading it.  How is it, I wondered, that I can so easily ignore something that I love so much (there is a deeper spiritual question there, but it’s beyond the scope of this post).  I was inspired and challenged.  By Christmas, I had read the four gospel accounts and decided there was no reason to stop there.  I was going to get back into a regular reading pattern and read through the entire Bible in 2012 for the first time in a few years.

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IAACOD Support Group - 300As many of you know, a couple of months ago we launch I Am A Child of Divorce as a resource site for children of divorce.  As part of an effort to be a place where children of divorce find hope and healing, we recently announced the launch of a pilot online support group program for teens.

This new group starts at the end of April and will run for 16 weeks and cover a variety of topics faced by teens when their parents separate or divorce.  Registration is open through next Tuesday (April 30th).

To find out more information about these groups, click on one of the following links:

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I’ve Missed You

Wayne —  April 25, 2013 — 2 Comments

missing-youI was looking through this blog today.  I know it’s a bit narcissistic since I write it, but it was more like a trip down memory lane.  Every once and while something will pop up in the most unexpected place linking back to an article from this site that I wrote years ago.  As I reread those article, I begin to reminisce about the “glory days” of Dad in the Middle.  There was a time when I was publishing six to seven posts a week here on the site – articles about children’s ministry and being a dad and things I was learning about God.  I have made life long friendships through this blog and other online activity.  I’ve launched, and shut down, a collaborative blog which fed a need for a short time and has sparked relationships that I rely on weekly (if not daily) for advice and encouragement.  The audience that started here at Dad in the Middle has afforded me the opportunity to follow God’s call into a whole new area of ministry – ministering to children of divorce.  These days Divorce Ministry 4 Kids and I Am A Child of Divorce take up the bulk of my writing time as that is where God has led me.

As I scanned through Dad in the Middle this morning, I realized that new visitors would be more likely to think this is a site about Biblical Prophecy than family life and children’s ministry – the result of a series I wrote years ago whose final installment (#116) will be published next Monday.  That article will represent the 915th article published on this site.  And, I realized something about myself.  I miss this site.  I miss sharing what I am learning about God, about being a Dad about teaching kids about God.  I miss the community and interaction that grew out of it.  But, things have changed too.  I don’t have the time I had when I first started Dad in the Middle in Summer of 2008.  In fact, the pace I had myself on eventually led to burn out and an intentionally scaled back scheduled when it comes to blogging and online activity.  So, I can’t go back there.  That wasn’t a healthy place.  So, wherein do I find the balance.

Here’s the plan!  Dad in the Middle will be back, and it will be back as I had originally intended it.  I will talk about the things that are most important to me.  Some of those may be of interest to other people – some will not, and that’s ok.  I will not, by the grace of God, allow it to become a chore again where I strive to meet some sort of posting schedule or perceived need.  That is a recipe for disaster.  And, I will not let it interfere with what I believe to be the ministry given to me by God – to minister to children of divorce and their families.  Instead, I intend to take Dad in the Middle back to it’s roots – a place for me to write about the things that are most important to me – God, my family and ministry.  That might mean one post a week, or it might mean one post per month.  I leave all of that up to God.

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Introduction

The Old Testament also tells us that the coming Messiah would proclaim Himself the fulfillment of prophecy.

Old Testament Prophecy

Sacrifice and offering you did not desire, but my ears you have pierced; burnt offerings and sin offerings you did not require. Then I said, "Here I am, I have come- it is written about me in the scroll. I desire to do your will, O my God; your law is within my heart." [Psalm 40:6-8 NIV]

New Testament Fulfillment

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